So, I’ve decided that rehearsing for a wedding is a good thing. It helps get some of the jitters out and puts the whole thing kind of into perspective. It is just one day. It is supposed to be the most important day of your life, and I guess that is okay, but if this is the most important day of my life I guess that is a little depressing. I hope I have more important days. I suppose it could be the most important day of my life to date, but still I don’t know if that is true. I would go along with saying that getting married is one of the 2 or 3 most important decision I have ever made. (The only other one I can think of is what I wanted to for living.) But the wedding is only 1/4 of a day and it is built up to be this HUGE thing and it is only 6 hours or so a persons life. Don’t get me wrong, I want to get married and I am excited about it, but I think people don’t always keep things in perspective.
Maybe this is just the musing of a tired male. Perhaps females feel differently since they allegedly dream about their perfect wedding for years, but I am far more excited about my life after the wedding than the wedding itself. Some day I will be out of debt and I will have kids and hopefully do something worthwhile with my life that I can share with my wife and family. Or, I will be a drunk crazy science teacher. Either is good.